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February 11th, 2008

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You may or may not already know that Mike King and I are hosting a gathering we are calling Prelude in April. I am excited to be with those of you who have already registered.
Today, I got word from our office that we have someone coming all the way from the Philippines! I am totally stoked by that…

You can learn more about Prelude at our website and blog. We would love to have you join us and other youth workers!

Do you know that laughter can add +8 years to your life (according to an AIG ad I read in Newsweek)? If that is true, we all need to stop taking ourselves so seriously and laugh it up a bit more…

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Anyway, here is a joke in the AIG ad (pg. 67 of Newsweek pictured above). The next time your lead pastor asks you to speak or report or whatever to the whole congregation you can use this one to calm your nerves and lighten the room up a bit…

A guy joins a monastery and takes a vow of silence:

He’s allowed to say two words every seven years. After the first seven years, the elders bring him in and ask for his two words. “Cold floors,” he says. Seven more years pass. They bring him back in and ask for his two words. “Bad food,” he says. Seven more years pass. They bring him in for his two words. “I quit,” he says. “That’s fine,” the elders say, “You have done nothing but complain since you got here.”

Childhood Hero…

September 11th, 2007

I am in Kansas City today working with Mike King and others at YouthFront. Mike and I (and Matt Wilks) swung by this really cool coffee shop near the YouthFront offices and who is sitting outside enjoying a cup of coffee with his friends…? George Brett, considerably one of the greatest third baseman in all of MLB history. Very cool… especially since we ate a burger at his restaurant down on the plaza last night while watching a bit of the Monday night football games.

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Some might say that Brett is most noted (outside of KC) for the “pine tar incident” at Yankee Stadium in 1983 but around KC he is noted as being one of the best of all time and now most noted as a genuine guy who gives back to his community is numerous ways.

Brett has always been one of my most remembered and favorite baseball players. I remember watching KC games on TV with my dad and hearing my dad (an accomplished baseball player himself) telling me that I was watching a player that would undoubtedly go down in history as one of the best. Today, to see him sipping a cup of coffee, give him the nod or respect and honor — and get a nod and smile back — will go down as one of the coolest moments in my life.

The Highly Edited Version

July 5th, 2007

Earlier today I had a Video SKYPE conversation with one of my good friends. He asked me as he regularly does, “Chris, how are you?” I responded as I regularly do by saying, “I am doing really well.” He didn’t accept my response this time. He said, “You are so full of crap! When are you going to give me the unedited version of how you are doing?”

After 30 minutes or so of catching up, he sent me away to read a section of a book called, Telling Secrets by Frederick Buechner. Here is a bit of it…

“I have come to believe that by and large the human family all has the same secrets, which are both very telling and very important to tell. They are telling in the sense that they tell what is perhaps the central paradox of our condition — that what we hunger for perhaps more than anything else is to be known in our full humanness, and yet that is often just what we also fear more than anything else.

It is important to tell at least from time to time the secret of who we truly and fully are even if we tell it only to ourselves — because otherwise we run the risk of losing track of who we truly and fully are and little by little come to accept instead the highly edited version which we put forth in hope that the world will find it more acceptable than the real things.”

Perhaps you will be as challenged by these words from Buechner as much as I was. Today, tell a friend who you really are. It feels good. I promise. I just phoned my friend back and told him a few of my secrets. At the least, tell yourself so not to accept the “highly edited” version.

Blessings friends!

iTunes Shuffle…

June 28th, 2007

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A week or so ago I got tagged by Stacy Sublett (a friend of mine who is a youth pastor in State College, PA) with a fun little deal he ripped from Jason Powell’s blog… So here goes, the 15 songs that came up when I opened iTunes and hit Shuffle.

  1. Now’s the Time — Miles Davis
  2. Dream in the Cup — David Wilcox
  3. Sugarchrist and Blackheadlights — Eric Tasa
  4. Slip Slidin’ Away — Paul Simon
  5. Weeping Pilgrim — Natalie Merchant
  6. Alibi — David Gray
  7. Somebody Already Broke My Heart — Sade
  8. Outside Villinova — Eric Hutchinson
  9. Out of My Mind — James Blunt
  10. The Naked Ride Home — Jackson Browne
  11. Cinder and Smoke — Iron and Wine
  12. Word of God Speak — Mercy Me
  13. The Itch is Back — Michael Roe
  14. Mary — Patty Griffin
  15. King of Glory — Chris Tomlin

The Way of Trust

February 26th, 2007

For my good friend Nathan in Australia — and the whole lot of us really…

“The way of trust is a movement into obscurity, into the undefined, into ambiguity, not into some predetermined, clearly delineated plan for the future…”

“The reality of naked trust is the life of a pilgrim who leaves what is nailed down, obvious, and secure, and walks into the unknown without any rational explanation to justify the decision or guarantee the future.”

Brennan Manning, Ruthless Trust, pages 12 & 13

Fantastic Weekend So Far…

February 24th, 2007

This weekend has been a fantastic weekend for me so far… I hope you are having a great one too.

Friday night was a great night. I went to a dance with my daughter — Megan. She is 7 years old. I had a blast dancing to “High School Musical” songs, talking with the other dads and watching Megan interact with her friends. It took her a while to get in her groove but when she did, it was really fun to watch. Here are a couple crappy cell phone pics…

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Today I co-facilitated one of our Sonlife Enroute learning experiences with my good friend and colleague, Doug Jones. Doug lives near Pittsburgh, PA so I seldom get to see him let alone invest in youth workers for a full day alongside of him. Doug is at the beginning stages of a book project that I can wait to read when it gets published one day. I am not sure of the exact title but deals with the youth pastor as spiritual guide. It has been fun to hear his ideas and see his passion for serving youth workers in this way…

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Right now it is snowing like crazy and I am hoping to be snowed in tomorrow morning so I can just have a coffee with my wife, play games with my kids and veg out in front of the TV for a couple of hours. Maybe I will do that even if we don’t get snowed in.

This Blows My Mind…

February 20th, 2007

So these guys ran 4,000 miles in 111 days. In other words, they ran the equivalent of nearly two marathons a day for 111 days… Is that ridiculous or what? I don’t think I could drive 4,000 in 111 days! Among other reasons, they ran to raise awareness for a non-profit called H2O Africa.

Check out the article at ESPN: http://sports.espn.go.com/sports/news/story?id=2772368

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Be The Change

February 20th, 2007

Yesterday I met with my friend and publisher Jay Howver from YS/Zondervan. He gave me Zach Hunter’s new book called, Be The Change. Zach is a fifteen-year-old abolitionist and activist who spends a bunch of his time working to end slavery around the world.

I spent about an hour last night reading through Zach’s book. It is really great. You should find a way to get Be The Change in the hands of all of your students and introduce them to the Amazing Change online community:
http://www.theamazingchange.com/community.php

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Marko posted about Zach a while ago on his blog… check it out here: http://www.ysmarko.com/?p=1301

I am off to Denver today for some meetings on Monday and Tuesday. I am looking forward to connecting with some old friends and meeting some new ones. It is supposed to be a little warmer (45-50 degress) than it has been in Chicago as of late. So I am also looking forward to that…
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O’Hare airport is wicked crazy today. Usually when I fly out on a Sunday I can expect the United terminal to be busy but not as crazy as it is today. O’Hare is never NOT busy but it is usually not this crazy on a Sunday afternoon!

In the security line I met a guy named Rick. He is on his way back home to the Washington DC area. He has been on the rode for 24 straight days selling consulting services to engineering types. The look of complete exhaustion on his face made me glad that I will only be away from my family for two nights.

Anyway, Rick was in front of me in line and in order to take out his laptop from his carry-on he had to remove a Bible — It was a big one — about the size of a standard dictionary! I asked him about it. I can’t remember exactly what I said but I made some smart remark about the size of it and he said, “It is the only one I got. So they make smaller ones?” I responded, “Yeah, you can get ones that fit in your pocket, or even ones that you can put on your hard drive” (pointing to his busted up IBM ThinkPad). He said, “My friend didn’t tell me that. What a jerk!” We chuckled a bit as we waited to get our things off the conveyor belt and get redressed (shoes, belt, sweatshirt — you know the drill).

We spoke for a few short minutes as he was in a hurry to catch his flight. In the short amount of time I had to talk with Rick I learned that he is in the process of exploring Christianity. He didn’t grow up with any sort of faith tradition but his next door neighbor has been “bugging him about becoming a Christian” lately so he thought he would read up on the subject in order to have a “reasonable conversation.” We said, “Safe travels” to one another and off we went.

I didn’t have time to tell Rick that I have spent a fair chunk of my life reading the Bible and exploring Christianity and Jesus. He was in too much of a hurry and the terminal is chaotic today, as I already mentioned, so I didn’t push it. I do wish, however, that I would have given him another resource to read along with the Bible. I know that God uses his special revelation as he wishes and that the involvement of the Spirit in one’s daily life can be enough for a person like Rick to meet Jesus, but man, it is really hard to explore Jesus by just reading the Bible on your own. I think it leaves most people without an accurate understanding of the context and meaning of Jesus.

I am very curious to know — what book/resource would you have recommended to Rick? Would you encourage Rick to read this recommended book along with the Bible? Would you have encouraged Rick to read this recommended resource before he read the Bible? After? I would love to hear from you on this.

Some of the ones I thought I might have receommneded to Rick if I would have had more time with him were…

  • Blue Like Jazz, Miller
  • Traveling Mercies, Lamott
  • Finding Faith, McLaren (I hear he has some new ones out too)

So what do you think? What is your favorite book to give someone who is exploring Christianity? How about your favorite book or resource to give inquisitive students?