The truth of the matter is that nearly all of my creative energy over the last year has been going to other more demanding projects.  Since joining Barefoot my priorities have been on organizational reculturing and, therefore, some of my other desires have taken a back seat.  Blogging (both macro and micro) has not been as urgent as redeveloping Barefoot into being on its way towards greater health, sustainability, growth and ministry impact.  I am having crazy amounts of fun working with Barefoot as we invent and rework many new and existing products.  Over the last year…

• We’ve acquired a youth ministry magazine and and re-launched it as the Immerse Journal.  With the help of Mike King, Tim Baker and a host of great writers we’ve gotten off to a wonderful start.  We hope to have an iPad version in the next few weeks.
• We’ve Redeveloped what was formerly “Credo Magazine” into “Credo Journal” with the help of Michael Novelli and Imago Media.  This journal is sweet.  One of my favorite projects to date. We’ve completely changed the way students might think of “doing devotions” into more of tool to help them develop a more holistic and robust way of life. You can see a sample HERE.
• We’ve released a few new books including, Bleed-Out, Sacred Community, and In-Transit.  We have three more releases coming this fall.  One is a reprint of Lesslie Newbigin’s, A Walk Through The Bible, another is a book called, Sacred Hope and the third is a book called, Be Un: Reverse Your Life.
• We’ve launched www.slant33.com and have gotten great feedback on its innovation and usefulness, thanks to our wonderful contributors.  We continue to hear stories from youth workers who share the articles/posts with their volunteers and, therefore, are pushing their teams to think more theologically about youth ministry.  Look for the next evolution to www.slant33.com in the next few months!
• We’ve added 15 new or returning cities on our $5 youth ministry training tour.  This year we will be covering three very important topics in our training seminars – small group ministry, evangelism, and the art of mentoring.  You can get more info about the seminars and locations near you HERE.
• We’ve clustered a wonderful series of other youth ministry training workshops.  As a part of our Barefoot Training, you can attend one of our great workshops on narrative youth ministry — what we call a transformational approach.  Most of the training content comes from my most recent book called, Story, Signs and Sacred Rhythms.  Pick up a copy of the book HERE and then contact my friend Paul to host our training in your church and/or community.  We’ve kept the cost of attending these workshops below $30 so that you can bring your entire youth ministry team.  We hope to be in around 60 cities this year.
• We’ve dramatically reworked our Sunday School Curriculum.  We are now using a much more experiential learning/learner-centered model than in years past.  We hope that this new approach not only helps the leader with a more conversational/formational approach but also has a long lasting impact on the learners.  If you don’t have SS content for this fall yet, I’d snatch it up now.  You can learn more about it HERE.
• We’ve got three or four new ministry tools coming out this fall including a new series of digital books called, Reverb BookShorts.  We are partnering with Mike King and Youthfront on the development of these.  We also are launching what we are calling, Bloom Books.  These are seriously simple books for your students with everyday practices for a flourishing faith.  Each of these books includes a leader/facilitator guide for an experiential retreat.   We are in the midst of redeveloping our subscription based website called, Barefoot Online into a more robust site which includes new and revised content, a whole new look and a host of youth worker training.  Finally, we will be releasing the first in a series of three (maybe more) books for parents of adolescents called, The Parent Journey.
• We’ve been working on our A World unBroken project and it is coming along nicely.  In 2011 we’ll be releasing a whole group missional living project which will include 1) a book for youth workers (authors such as Scot McKnight, Mark Oestreicher, Kara Powell, Ian Cron, Mike King, Jason Barnhart, Pamela Erwin, Mae Elise Cannon and more!) 2) a missional journal for students and a 3) DVD with a bunch of great resources such as animated film shorts, curriculum, promo videos, etc.  You can check out one of the promo videos HERE.

So, most of my creative energy over the last few months (almost a year, really) has gone into the above.  Of course, the team at Barefoot is responsible for the implementation and execution of all of the above.  I work with an amazingly talented group of people who understand and our passionate about what it means to serve the church by helping youth workers guide students into spiritual formation for the mission of God.

All that to say, I think I’ve gotten my life and schedule figured out enough to start blogging again.  I’ve said that a few other times but honestly, I feel like I now have some creative energy I can put toward my blog and other projects.  Maybe if I hustle and write some good content I can keep my top 10 status on the YS ranking!

If you want a quick visual overview of all that we are doing at Barefoot, go HERE.

Recently, I was sharing some thoughts regarding the future of youth ministry with a   group of local lead and executive pastors.  I was asked, “If you were to go back and do youth ministry again, as you once did, how would what you know now change how you would lead a youth ministry?”  I had a few items off the top of my head (some are listed below) but I pointed them all to this post for a more robust list of things I might do differently.  So, if I were to go back and lead a youth ministry again I would…

• Act theologically before methodologically
• Be more of a spiritual director than a program director
• Hire a parent to be a part of our youth staff
• Spend more time investing in interns/co-pastors
• Experiment with more learner-centered education models
• Ask less of my volunteers and yet equip them more
• Communicate change to the church leaders, staff and parents more
• Create more opportunities for students to “learn up” instead of me “teaching down”
• Celebrate the successes in the lives of students with greater regularity and intensity
• Worry less about the retreat themes and spend more time with the students on the retreats.
• Take students on way more spiritual retreats
• Work hard to be more collaborative with the youth workers in my city
• Take more time off to be with my wife and kids
• Be more intentional with a confirmation process
• Find time to laugh and play more
• Be more grace-filled with students who were goofing off and causing trouble
• Try to learn more from the staff instead of thinking I have all the answers
• Take the criticism of others more seriously and less defensively
• Meet with my spiritual director more often
• Take personal retreats more often
• Be way more missional and a lot less attractional in my approach or model
• Try and get more pulpit time to advocate for the students in the church and community
• Pray more and develop a team of people to pray with
• Provide inspiring training for the parent of the students
• Call the students to greater levels of holiness
• Spend a lot more time creating opportunities for students to practice justice
• Allow the more artistic students opportunities to express themselves and their love for God.
• Teach much more conversationally
• Try to enter into the joy, pain, loss, doubt, hurt, etc. of the students and their families

If I spend some more time thinking I am sure I could come up with a list of a whole lot more things I would do differently.  If you are a youth pastor/worker, what are some things you have learned to do differently from when you began until now?  If you are a former youth pastor/worker, what are some things that you would do differently?

I am not sure who is sending it or why they feel like it is important that I be reminded of it. Whoever it is — they are a wuss for not responding to my replies and for not being willing to have a conversation.

I am a bit pizzled (I borrowed that word from Daniel Goleman: Why aren’t we all Good Samaritans? a short lecture at www.ted.com. Pizzled is the feeling you get when someone whips out their Blackberry aka crackberry or cell phone and begins having a conversation with someone. It’s a cross between pissed off and puzzled. Urban Dictionary) about it really. I am not at all pizzled about the review. Some youth workers like my book, some don’t. Some youth workers find it helpful, some don’t. I am okay with that. That is the way that it is for most books people write, movies that are produced, music that is written, building that are designed, etc. Everyone has preferences and whatnot.

If you read the review I linked to above you’ll see the reviewer hated my book — but at least it made her think. In the end, for me, that is what it is about. Who cares where you land. Did it make you think? That is what is important.

Courtesy of Mark Matlocks www.wisdomgarb.com!

So, don’t be a hater. If you have something to say — I am listening. But stop hiding behind your generic @hotmail account.

Before long I found myself weeping. I cry a lot at movies (you should have seen me, Mike King and Eric Venable crying a while back over a movie with Adam Sandler — Reign Over Me — I think it was called) and it doesn’t take much for me to cry at home with my family either. Today, as a matter of fact, my son Drew and I went out to run an errand and for a stopover at one of his favorite playgrounds. When we got home he said, “Daddy, this is the best day ever.” My nose is still a little drippy. I can usually keep it together over a theology book though…

Today, the words from “A Community Called Atonement” pierced through my thick false self and found its way right into my tender zone. I love McKnight’s works for a bunch of reasons. I find his writing to be bold, constructive, precise, rooted, absorbing, determined and incredibly teachable. Some of my friends find his writing to be mechanical and choppy — they are freaking crazy. The biggest reason I might love his writing, however, is there is usually a few dozen pages in each of his works that God uses to mold me a bit more into who he wants me to be… today was one of those days.

Anyway, here is what I read…

“Here is a statement by Jesus that few can contest (referring to Matthew 6:14-15). Jesus connects our forgiveness from God and our forgiveness of others — and they are so connected that if we don’t forgive others, God won’t forgive us. However one wants to clarify this text, and it begs for some clarification, the connection of God’s work and our work is unavoidable. The atoning God creates a community of atonement.” (pg. 29)

He goes on to say…

“To be forgiven, to be atoned for, to be reconciled — synonymous expressions — is to be granted a mission to become a reciprocal performer of the same: to forgive, to work atonement, and to be an agent of reconciliation. Thus, atonement is not just something done to us and for us, it is something we participate in — in this world, in the here and now. It is not just something done, but something that is being done and something we do as we join God in the missio Dei.”
(pg. 30-31)

Thank you Scot. Your words deeply connected my heart with God’s intended will and way for my life!

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As with most tags, here are the rules:

1. Apologize for three things that Christians have often got wrong. Your apologies should be directed towards those who don’t view themselves as part of the Christian community. Alternatively, apologize for things you personally have done wrong towards those outside of the church.
2. Post a comment at the originating post so others can keep track of the apologies.
3. Tag five people to participate in the meme.
4. If desired, send an email with the link to your blog post at the Christians Confess site, giving permission for your apologies to be added to the website.

Confessions:

First, I confess that I have not revealed through my own actions, words and deeds the accessible life and message of Jesus as well as I could have and should have. I have not always been the image of God nor have I always attentively joined in his kingdom activity where I could have and should have. For the many omissions, I am sorry.

Second, I confess that I have far too often let the frown on my face override the smile. I have let negativity, skepticism and cynicism guide my behavior and reactions rather than the hope, trust and faith that comes with being a believer in Jesus. I sincerely apologize for this disgruntlement. How would anyone be able to see Jesus in me if I am only displaying the me in me?

Finally, I confess that my prayers to God have been more about me and my needs and selfish desires than for the injustice, poverty, genocide, corruption, racism, war, etc. that besiege many everyday. I am sorry that I have not been more aware, concerned and benevolent.

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In my role as director of Sonlife I have had to be about evaluation, critical thinking and constant assessment of our training, products and events for their impact and effectiveness. I have to be conscience of and practice healthy business fundamentals like supply and demand, financial sustainability, cost to benefit analysis, budget projections, staff productivity, etc. I am learning a bit as I go. Thank God I have a team and a board of directors to help me. I have no formal business training and I am a youth pastor as heart so I admit I have some major growth areas. However, when it comes to the efforts of others I am far to concerned with my opinion, what I would do different or what I could do to make something better. This is a problem for me.

We all need to be evaluated and sharpened in our leadership and methods and the truth is there is always room for improvement. I am not against helping myself or others move to the next level, but why do I seem to think that everything that I do is better than what everyone else is doing…?

Now, convictions are all together a different issue. The things I am convicted about I do because of God’s leading and the Spirits prompting. I understand that when I evaluate someone else’s or even my own ministry efforts that I need to do so through the lens of what I hold to be an unshakable truth. Again, that is different. I know the difference between the two — opinion and conviction — and yet for whatever the reason I always seem to blend the two together and pretend that they are one.

Let me give you and example. We (Sonlife) just finished two straight weeks of Merge, an event designed to help students merge their life with God’s story, his intended way of life and his mission to restore the world. It is a good event. Nearly the whole week I was in opinion/evaluation mode. I was looking for things that I would do differently and then communicating those things to people around me. Now, some of them were simple and logistical and in many ways related to those healthy business practices I mentioned above. Others of them, however, were related more to the effectiveness of other people serving in certain roles compared to myself or the way a room was set up or the song selection or the images behind the lyrics on the screen. These are not things I am convicted about. These are things I have different ideas and preferences about. You see my personal conundrum?

I need to be more concerned with who God is calling me to be and what I believe he is ordering me to be convicted about. The jealousy, cynicism, skepticism, arrogance and the need to be better or right have got to go.

Do you struggle with this? Do you find yourself being carried away from your calling and mission by “better ideas” or “other ways”? We need to help each other grow away from this type of thinking.

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